Category Archives: What Can Make Me Vulnerable To Sexually Abusing A Child?

What can make me vulnerable to sexually abusing a child?

Some risk factors were described in the previous section, but a more complete list of relevant factors include the following:

  • Low esteem, difficulty relating with adults, or asserting oneself
  • Sensitivity to rejection
  • Still feel like a child emotionally – feeling not grown up
  • Felt unloved in childhood
  • Lack of physical touch or affection from parents in childhood
  • Participation in childhood sexual activity, either by having been victimised, or engaging in precocious sex as a child
  • Feeling more comfortable with children than adults, and developing special friendships with children
  • Having to have sex to feel loved
  • Using sex to recover from upsets or solve emotional problems
  • Viewing child pornography and masturbating to images
  • Collecting pornography, or being otherwise sexually preoccupied
  • Sexual arousal to children
  • Experiencing a confusion of love and sex
  • Not talking to others about your needs when feeling upset, lonely or unloved
  • Being preoccupied with wanting to show affection and love to children because no one showed you the love you wanted.