No. Only some abusers are antisocial or disrespectful of the law, such as having histories of aggression and violence, dishonesty, causing property damage, or an involvement in drug and alcohol abuse. Such offenders are typical of those who cause harm to other community members. Most people who are destructive or hurt others have a history of having suffered emotional wounds in childhood from abuse, neglect, and sometimes trauma which no one could avert. Such offenders learnt to cope inappropriately with their pain by acting-out impulsively or acting in a retaliatory manner, often unconsciously.
In summary, it can be said that:
Most people who are cruel suffered severe childhood losses or trauma, or were victims of cruelty themselves, and they repeat the cycle by creating new victims.
The common desire to retaliate when we are hurt (or if one of our loved ones is hurt) demonstrates the underlying processes, but in the most serious offenders their vindictiveness or desire to hurt back can operate unconsciously. However, individuals who are better self-controlled refrain from acting on their desires or impulses if it creates negative or bad outcomes. Antisocial individuals are more prone to act on impulse, without regard for the effects on others, and are more concerned with short-term benefits to themselves, which can include avoiding pain or chasing an altered (improved) state of consciousness associated with pleasure.